A great disturbance in human relations is: wanting to
be right, at any price; this mostly causes a predictable split in the
communication.
Human beings are different from each other and thus they have different points
of view. The call for justice can infiltrate the personal relationships and
prevent someone from communicating effectively with others. Immobility mostly
is the conse-quence of the reality of injustice. As long as you have a concept
of justice, you can mostly make the right decisions. Injustice isn't important,
important is what you do about it. For every injustice that happens to you, you
can find a solution that doesn't necessarily has to make you immobile. By
postponing things indefinitely you admit to escaping reality.
If you aren't capable of using the current moments in your life in a personally
satisfactory way, boredom will soon arrive, which is self-destructive. Use your
spirit in a creative manner in situations that were earlier annoying. If you
want to change the world, don't complain.
Practically all negative emotions lead to a certain measure of immobility. At
first you have to accept yourself without complaints; love yourself at all
times, for only then you'll be able to give and to accept love. An obvious
evidence of life is growth, and this rule also applies in the psychologi-cal
world.
Growing motivation is life energy: use it for greater happyness.
Using your spirit actively means: estimate people and events which give
problems and decide to let those work in your own favour by maintaining a
renewed mental strategy.
Devising pithy sentences is a good preparation against dominance. Conversations
with dominant persons have to be had at the right time.
Remember, differences of opinion, conflicts and compromises are a part of the
human life. A psychological reward for anger doesn't exist. This process is
weakening, it disturbs communication and leads to a feeling of guilt and
depression. The best cure for sadness is to learn why and through what the
world is swaying.
It is not today's experience that makes people crazy, it mostly is remorse
about something what happened yesterday and what can happen tomorrow.